7982 Unix/ Qmail & Mysql problem

Unix/Apache w/Free BSD 4.8. I have a dating website and use webscribble software. MySQL and QMAIL servers won't stay up. /usr/local/mysql/bin/mysqld_safe & Starting mysqld daemon with databases from /usr/local/mysql/var 060730 08:47:12 mysqld ended qmailctl stat /service/qmail-send: up (pid 66323) 1537 seconds /service/qmail-send/log: up (pid 66329) 1537 seconds /service/qmail-smtpd: up (pid 66203) 0 seconds /service/qmail-smtpd/log: up (pid 66347) 1537 seconds /service/qmail-unixserver: up (pid 66350) 1537 seconds /service/qmail-unixserver/log: up (pid 19341) 62117 seconds /service/qmail-pop3d: up (pid 66361) 1538 seconds /service/qmail-pop3d/log: up (pid 66362) 1538 seconds messages in queue: 27 messages in queue but not yet preprocessed: 0 Went in through webmin and deleted qmail emails from the last day but no help. Restarted and ended qmail but no help. Rebooted and restarted Apache webserver then retried but no help.