25922 AEDATING IM Notification

I need a mod done to my site. Its based on aewebworks ( aedating ) 4.1 IQ The site is highly modded and i need a mod done so the internal IM for aedating has a notification. Due to no notification this renders the application as almost useless for IM's Clicking on ADD TO IM or ( CHAT ) on aedating would add you to the IM. Then you open the im window to speak with the user. THing is the other user will no know you did this, and will not know to open ther im window to check for messages. The add to im or ( CHAT ) fields on the search and on profiles for this are Javascript. i would like some form of notification, Popup or whatever ( User added you to im ) , ETC I prefer someone who has worked on aedating and understands it a little and knows how the IM works. We can discuss $$$$ and what you think this is worth. To the right coder, This should be able to be done in 1 days work easily! Thanks for reading Jeff